Education and career decisions

Before you choose a major: four questions worth your time

Being unsure about a major isn't a sign you're behind. Four questions that help you understand yourself and your options before you commit.

The question I get most from students is: “which major is best?”

And the least useful answer I could give is the name of one.

The question worth your time is slightly different: which one fits me, and why? The gap between those two questions is the gap between a decision you make and one you borrow.

Before you commit, sit with these four. This isn’t a test, and there are no right answers. They’re thinking tools.

1. What do I do without feeling the weight of time?

Not simply what you enjoy — what you get into and lose track of the hour.

Pay attention to the kind of activity, not its subject. Do you enjoy putting a mess in order? Convincing someone of an idea? Taking something apart to see how it works? Sitting with numbers until they say something? Helping someone who is stuck?

Those aren’t majors. They’re signals — and a signal is more honest than a title.

2. Where am I genuinely good, on someone else’s testimony and not only my own?

Ask three people who know you in different contexts: a teacher, a friend, and someone at home.

Ask something specific: “what do you notice I do well that I might not notice myself?”

We usually can’t see our own strengths, because they cost us nothing. What feels obvious to you may be exactly what sets you apart.

3. What environment do I actually work well in?

This question gets skipped, even though it shapes how satisfied you are at work far more than the name of the degree.

  • Do you prefer working alone or with a team?
  • Are you steadier with clear tasks, or open-ended ones?
  • Do you need a quick result, or can you stay with a long project?
  • Are you drawn to people, or to systems and things?

Two majors with the same name can lead to completely different environments. And two different names can lead to the same one.

4. What am I assuming about this field that I haven’t checked?

This is where most of the error lives.

We choose based on a picture in our heads — from a show, from a relative in the field, from a salary figure someone mentioned. Two years later, the picture turns out to have been inaccurate.

Write your assumptions down plainly. “I think this field means…”. Then test just one of them:

  • Talk to someone who has worked in the field for at least three years — not a student in it.
  • Read five real job descriptions the degree actually leads to.
  • Read the study plan course by course, not just the programme title.

Being unsure isn’t evidence that you’re behind. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t passion; it’s exploration.

Your step this week

Don’t try to answer all four at once.

Pick one question, and write your answer to it for ten minutes without editing. Then put the page away and read it again two days later.

Clarity doesn’t always come from thinking more. Sometimes it comes from writing down what you already think, and seeing it in front of you.

It starts with a conversation

Tell me what’s least clear about where you are right now. We’ll start there.